Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Incredibly Self Conscious about this... help?

First of all, don't worry about rambling on if you are discussing your problem, sometimes it is better to explain in detail so people know what your are fully feeling. Now on to your situation. I know that you feel ashamed of your physical attributes, but don't be! I know this will sound really corny, but people don't judge you on the size of your hands and feet. People with good personalities will look through the person to see what they are like on the inside. As to why you are so self conscious about this, your age has a lot to do with it. Many teens feel very insecure about themselves, and think too much about what other people think, instead of being confident in their own self. What you have to do now is mature mentally a little bit, and start feeling good about yourself. Teenage years are a time of both mental and physical hardships (I know from past experiences). The one thing my counselor told me that I will never forget is, "We are all individuals for a reason, with different appearances. Be happy not for what you are, but WHO you are." I hope you take my words into consideration. If you do, I'm sure you'll be just fine.

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