I hate my deaf family alot?

My dad is deaf, he married a deaf woman, and had a deaf girl and two hearing kids. I'm one of the hearing kids, and my sister is deaf, and my brother is hearing. My dad is such a dick. He is always signing at me to clean my room and he signs at me to sign at him and not move my mouth. He criticizes the way I dress (skinny jeans, deep Vs and DC shoes) and always hates on me. He curses at me in ASL, and he favors my sister, who is a b itch. She's always telling on me when I put glue on the TTY, or when I make out with my girlfriend behind our house, but I never tell on her when she has Relay Service sex or fingers herself to Billy Seago. My mom is always angrily signing at me about something, usually with my grades or my clothing, or the amount of COD I play, or the amount of skating I do, and she's always freaking out about me making out with my hearing girlfriend Elissa. The first time I brought her over was the last. She knew some sign because she was in our school's ASL program, but when she tried to sign bathroom, she did it wrong, and she used a B handshape instead of a T. My mom and dad were nice about it at first, but later she angrily signed about how stupid she was, and wondered how it was possible after eight months of ASL, she couldn't get the simple sign bathroom right. And even though they never do it, they always threaten to throw full milk cartons at me. For some reason, this form of punishment is actually rather common in the deaf community. But even though they don't mean it, I find it annoying regardless. My parents always employ me as a translator and never makes my brother do it. Even when my mom buys tampons. She forces me to do that sh*t. My hearing brother is my only familial friend in this family. All in all, the Andersons are not a happy family, especially me. How should I confront my deaf family about these issues?